Saturday, December 30, 2006

living alone

this post is about my experiences of living alone..after my room mate moved to another city i had to make the big decision..should i live alone? or should i find a new room mate? i chose the do it yourself mode of life and found myself a new apartment ..."my home".the last six months were a struggle that is tough to put in to words..coming home knowing all that awaits u is the emptiness of your home yet looking forward to the silence and solitude...buying 2 bananas..not buying flavored yogurt...buying enough frozen food so i never had to cook and if i did there wud be enough to last for a week....watching movie after movie..dropping off laundry instead of doing it together...remembering that it was all to be done...carryign it all..nobody wud carry the heavier bag simply cos i was the shorter one...never finding double stock of milk...always buying 2%...nobody to surprise...and then nobody to complain cos u didn't clean...i love the independence but i sure miss her...!?!?!!!

8 Comments:

Blogger Neers said...

heyy, staying alone, one of the bravest and the easiest thing to do... you learn n you grow!! kudos to you! n a very happy new year!!!

4:06 AM  
Blogger Kalpana said...

Good that u're Njoying life the way you want. Which country do you stay?

6:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Arrgghhh...as u said its ok to be independent...but boring to be alone. When I was almost alone for a room here for 2 months...i was close to becoming mad...

9:21 PM  
Blogger divya said...

neers-hppy new year to u too..kalpana i stay in the US..AND harish u r right it sure is tough....

9:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

divya.. in many ways i share the same feelings cos I stay alone and even after 1.5 yrs its lonely.. at 1st it was very difficult esp when there were all my frnds arnd and then noone.. i havent found a solution myself to even give u some kinda assurance.. sigh! keep ur spirits high thgh

12:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks.

9:02 AM  
Blogger Twisted DNA said...

Isn't that the irony of life? We miss things but we also enjoy the lack of :)

3:38 PM  
Blogger ~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

hey !

thanx for stopping by ,,,,

i love the feeling of having to stay alone .. but 5 days of staying alone .. i start feeling that smthg is missing !

4:39 AM  

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